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1. Best position for his enjoyment

Practically every animal species utilizes the rear-entry doggy-style position, so it is a natural one for humans to enjoy, as well. While you wont have face-to-face contact, there are many benefits. Its great for guys because it gives them full control. This is one of the best positions for hitting her G-spot and allows him to fondle your breasts, stomach, clitoris, back, neck and other sensual spots. The main benefit for your man is that hell be able to get incredibly deep penetration (above-average guys need to be careful as deep thrusts might hit her cervix, which can be quite painful).

2. Find your mans hidden zones

Yes, men love to be touched sensually too. I call these hidden zones because many people dont realize, or forget, that these areas of the body LOVE attention. While many of these zones are obvious, like the lips, groin, and inner thighs, there are also areas that, when stroked, caressed and kissed, can drive your partner wild and even intensify their orgasm. Believe it or not, the ears, neck, arms, chest and scalp are all really sensitive areas that love to be stimulated. Spend some time during foreplay caressing and touching these areas, and watch how it pleases your partner.

BLOW BY BLOW: the complete guide to fellatio.

3. Set a romantic mood

Think men arent romantic or wouldnt appreciate it? Think again! Everyone loves a thoughtful and kind gesture. Of course you might think that using candles, music, incense and even rose petals to set the mood of your lovemaking is a little too clich. But hell think differently! Your partner will LOVE YOU for this. Just imagine how happy you would feel if someone went to all the trouble to create a special lovemaking occasion that you can cherish for years to come. Could this be so clich because people enjoy it so much? Point made.

4. Hand job

When beginning a genital massage, start with lighter, irregular strokes like teasing. As you get further and further into it, stick with two or three main strokes that your partner really enjoys. Developing a good rhythm that your partner can get into is the key to bringing your partner to orgasm with a genital massage.

5. Pleasure your man with oral sex

If I had to give you one piece of advice to make your lovemaking perfect, it would be: learn the art of fellatio. Its true, all men love it. It feels great and actually takes a lot of trust and comfort to let somebody have their mouth down there. In short, its an important part of lovemaking and is often the main event. Problem is, women often start fellatio by sucking on the penis straightaway when, actually, they should start with some playful teasing and soft touches. This will lead to a much more powerful orgasm as it heightens his anticipation. Make sure you use different techniques and your tongue, as well.

So there you have it. Five great ways to make your man more satisfied in the bedroom. While theyre all great, I would recommend putting most of your energy and time into learning fellatio, simply because men crave it so much and the loving smile and kisses youll probably get in return are definitely worth it.

tips on bringing your man to orgasm

Best position for his enjoyment

Practically every animal species utilizes the rear-entry doggy-style position, so it is a natural one for humans to enjoy, as well. While you wont have face-to-face contact, there are many benefits. Its great for guys because it gives them full control. This is one of the best positions for hitting her G-spot and allows him to fondle your breasts, stomach, clitoris, back, neck and other sensual spots. The main benefit for your man is that hell be able to get incredibly deep penetration (above-average guys need to be careful as deep thrusts might hit her cervix, which can be quite painful).

Find your mans hidden zones

Yes, men love to be touched sensually too. I call these hidden zones because many people dont realize, or forget, that these areas of the body LOVE attention. While many of these zones are obvious, like the lips, groin, and inner thighs, there are also areas that, when stroked, caressed and kissed, can drive your partner wild and even intensify their orgasm. Believe it or not, the ears, neck, arms, chest and scalp are all really sensitive areas that love to be stimulated. Spend some time during foreplay caressing and touching these areas, and watch how it pleases your partner.

Set a romantic mood

Think men arent romantic or wouldnt appreciate it? Think again! Everyone loves a thoughtful and kind gesture. Of course you might think that using candles, music, incense and even rose petals to set the mood of your lovemaking is a little too clich. But hell think differently! Your partner will LOVE YOU for this. Just imagine how happy you would feel if someone went to all the trouble to create a special lovemaking occasion that you can cherish for years to come. Could this be so clich because people enjoy it so much? Point made.

Hand job

When beginning a genital massage, start with lighter, irregular strokes like teasing. As you get further and further into it, stick with two or three main strokes that your partner really enjoys. Developing a good rhythm that your partner can get into is the key to bringing your partner to orgasm with a genital massage.

Pleasure your man with more oral sex

If I had to give you one piece of advice to make your lovemaking perfect, it would be: learn the art of fellatio. Its true, all men love it. It feels great and actually takes a lot of trust and comfort to let somebody have their mouth down there. In short, its an important part of lovemaking and is often the main event. Problem is, women often start fellatio by sucking on the penis straightaway when, actually, they should start with some playful teasing and soft touches. This will lead to a much more powerful orgasm as it heightens his anticipation. Make sure you use different techniques and your tongue, as well.

So there you have it. Five great ways to make your man more satisfied in the bedroom. While theyre all great, I would recommend putting most of your energy and time into learning fellatio, simply because men crave it so much and the loving smile and kisses youll probably get in return are definitely worth it.

BLOW BY BLOW: the complete guide to fellatio.

You’ll admit it that you just aren’t very good at giving a man oral sex. You are mediocre and that just isn’t going to cut it. It is time that you learned some great blow job tips so you can give a blow job like a pro and really make your man’s toes curl tonight.

You have to let loose if you want to be good at this. Being all uptight about giving a man oral sex isn’t going to help out your situation. You need to have sexual confidence about yourself if you expect your man to shake and cum with pleasure. You need some blow job tips:

Be rough. Men are built tough and strong so that means that you have to be a bit rougher with him than you are used to. Men can take a bit of manhandling so don’t be afraid to give it to him. Use a hand to stroke his shaft and use a tight grip. He wants to feel your fingers wrapped around him tightly during head so give him what he wants.

Suck. Once again, you have to be rough with your man because being sensitive isn’t going to get you anywhere when it comes to giving head. If you want to give your man the greatest orgasm of his life, then suck on the tip of his penis. This will create a suction like a vacuum and he will love it.

Make it wet. Use lots of saliva, but not too much so you get things wet for him. His member loves wetness just like your mouth and your vagina when you are all wet. Make oral sex wet for him and he will love it.

Use these blow job tips to give the best head ever.

Unfortunately, most women don’t know how to give good blow jobs. They’re looking for advice from other women that just think they know what are doing – but are in fact more or less clueless. Don’t get dissapointed if you’re not that good – you can learn easily if you invest some time into getting the right knowledge and the real stuff – and not some stupid Cosmo fluff.

I’ll give you a few tips so you can give your man really good blow jobs. The first thing you need to do is change the way you view the whole “oral sex” thing. Over time you’ll see that there’s a lot more psychological stuff involved than physical. Let’s start with some basic tips.

Blow Job Tip #1

Relax. Get yourself to relax. Worrying and thinking negative won’t help you that much. What you really need is to get yourself and him in a comfortable position first. Next, try getting him to relax – but before that, you have to relax yourself. Emotions tend to jump from person to person. So if you’re going to be all nervous and lost – well, you don’t want that happening. Why are you nervous? You’re trying. Even if it’s not the best bj right away – so what? At least you’re trying and every guy will appreciate that. So relax, who cares. It’s not the end of the world. Over time and practice you’ll get better. Just view it as FUN and NOT WORK. Once you get into a playful attitude you can both just laugh about it and enjoy it without worrying about the outcome. That brings us the second tip.

Blow Job Tip #1

Stop expecting an outcome. He doesn’t have to orgasm. When you start worrying about it and thinking (while giving him head) – “Oh, why didn’t he came yet?”, “Am I doing it right?” and other similar stuff – you’ll just make him nervous, then he’ll start thinking “oh no, what if I can’t orgasm, is she tired, maybe I’m forcing this on her, maybe she’s not even enjoying it” – and that certainly won’t bring him to climax. So – relax. And forget about the outcome. Let there be fun, truly enjoy it and whatever. If he doesn’t orgasm this time, so what, he will next time. You just have to get off the stress from yourself and him. When you’re giving him head, you’re the one that’s leading. His pleasure depends on you completely (or pain). So stay in control, and understand that it’s all about controlling his mind.

Any woman can learn good bj techniques – but not every woman can learn how to control a guys emotions during the blow job. That’s what you have to learn if you truly want to be the best he ever had.

Blow Job Tip #3

Would you believe that a simple thing as a smile can make a HUGE difference. All you girls out there that are not smiling, and are all serious when giving blow jobs to their boyfriends or husbands. Hello? Don’t view it as a job. Get a fun attitude and SMILE. You have to convey to him that you’re really enjoying it – and a smile is where you should start.

Those are the basics. Keep on learning and with a little practice, you’ll be the only woman he’ll ever desire. Ever! Such is the power of great bj’s. The good thing for you (once you learn the skills) is that your competition is pretty low. It’s not that hard to be better than average when it comes to giving your man oral. Just a little practice and the right knowledge – that’s it.

Good luck,
Jack